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5 Steps to Make Your Friends Loves You
Imagine if friends around you suddenly became your enemy
because of your personality that are difficult to blend with your friends. Of
course you will feel lonely, empty and stress instead? For those of you who do
have a character that is difficult to get along, this is the place, here I will
present 5 steps to make your friends loves you
First Praise your friends as often as possible
praise is one of the patterns of interaction that is almost
always the case in human life. There is apositive side which may be obtained
after the acclaimed, one of which is a form of appreciation for the recipient
converted into a motivation to do things more glorious again beside of that praise
also brings you are in a strategic position to be liked by others.
Second be a good listener
Most of the men are bad listeners. He wanted to hear but
less willingness to hear, therefore a good listener is a person who always loved
and needed by everyone. Give a chance to others to talk, ask questions and make
him excited to continue to talk. Listen him with enthusiasm, and do not judge him
if not requested. This is a pretty effective way, do not like to cut the conversation.
Third Avoid the habit of condemning or underestimate
usually people do not like if his weakness known by others ,
much less humiliated. someone who
performed this kind tend to be defensive, they will look for a scapegoat even
for those people who have a weak heart will make a little phobia, the danger is
the possibility that he no longer wants to do these things. so do not mocking
your friend if he is wrong. try to appreciate any his opinions even if you do
not agree with him.
Fourth Increase social care
Have a high social responsibility is a personal
characteristic that is favored by many people. If you want to be liked by many
people, so diligently to help the work of people around us. Do not always
prospected want to earn money when it has helped someone. Eliminate your idler
and individualistic. Your caring for your friends will strengthen your
relationship with your friend.
Fifth always smile
to multiply smiling when interacting with friends is very
necessary in this case because with smiling people around you will feel comfortable
when close to you, so for those of you
who is rarely smiles, let's start from now to smile to others because it will
make people respect on you and smiling also make you look more fresh
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