Having a Date in Islam

Name                    : Gina Agustina

NIM                       : 3091311007

Subject                 : Writing IV (Final Test)

Topic                     : Argument Essay

Having a Date in Islam

Love is not sight age, This quotes remember me about relationship between men and women. A human certainly can be knew slowly about admire, love, like and anything about love. But eventually, especially teens can be express to admire whether he or she have a feeling with beloved admire.  I know it’s normal to do it by humans. Without love, our life can be empty, do without anything. Seems like wind.

Humans knowing others by introducing his/herself to new environment or another people. Without knowing people, we can’t be form a group, friends, etc. Domainly, in the relationship human’s peer there’s a famous to knowing by people. Such as,  Having a date. Having a date is a relationship with the opposite sex. Having a date many forms are dependent who can face it, such as Long Distance Relationship, Mix and Match, Love at First sight,etc. I’m really sure that everyone can felt it. Especially for teens.

However, in islam Having a date not already exist. Many people think that Having a date can waste time to run happiness or not with boy/girlfriend. young people Having a date maybe they were imitated the western culture, instead Romantic movies can be a guide them to reasonable fall in love.  That’s why the having date are raise in young life. in islam, also not introduce to Having a date. not really able to do, before modern era, Having a date are forbidden to do because it will make a sin unawarely , also can demotivating school, studies, worship also positive activities. Our religion not knew that Having a Date, Say it with Flower, Fall in Love. But Taaruf and Marriage then Having a date, it can say halal. Right?

In fact, having a date can show us the learn about love. Without mind, we can run anything we want. But, islam forbidden us to do it. Islam ask us to raise our worship to Allah, be positive that’s gonna be okay. A couple alredy prepared by Allah swt for us. Don’t worry to felt avoid having a date. But taaruf will better than we have having a date, it was really vain to waste your time with having a date, it made you felt uncertain, confused, not focused to our school, future and our religion. It was dangerous if you wanna be a person who dissolved by Love.

But, for the contra I realized that Islam is not really able to forbid the member for felt in love. Everyone can express their felt to secret admirer or target. This statement is only suggestion. Many people are success also not uncertain about relationship with their couple, in other words knowing others is really good for our relationship closely. As good as people admit their gf/boyfriend as family. But if we should definitely that Having a date is not really always be negative side. Everything certainly exist the consequence, depended about the person is. But if you wan’t to try having a date, you not be able to know the admirer or you can be anti-social. Don’t over to show your religion or secular world. Be yourself

Love is timeless and easy to think in our mind. I always mind that, Human can felt anything especially love, not really to couple, we must love anything you do. Don’t show over into public about your privacy with him/her. It made yourself can be ashamed. You may to have a date with someone who loves you, have a date has many purpose that we can know the attitude,anything about him/her, and importantly don’t forget to school ,college, and your privacy about worship to Allah swt. Enjoy your life, keep balance!